It’s crazy how easily we misunderstand our partners and loved ones simply because we have different communication needs and styles.
Sometimes we pass each other like ships in the dark, thinking the other person doesn’t care when actually this simply isn’t true. It’s just a matter of learning your and your partner’s differences in communication needs and styles.
This Saturday in Zurich, 10am to 1pm, I’ll be hosting another in a series of mini workshops showing you how you can use the information in your hands to shift your life up to the next level through joy and understanding.
What heartline type are you? And your partner?
Do you feel unsupported or betrayed? (We’ll look at this and other markers close to our hearts).
Are you scared of getting hurt again? (How fear of vulnerability shows up and what to do.)
What to do about codependency?
These are all topics that will be touched on during the course of the morning.
In the afternoon I’ll be available for looking at your hands more privately.
For more information and how to get there, visit http://handreadingtoday.comJena Griffiths is a certified life purpose Hand Analyst. Hand analysis is a modern form of palmistry/non predictive palm reading.
Jena consults and runs workshops at Predigergasse 19, Zürich.
(Handanalyse/handlesen auch in Deutsch.)
Interesting concepts in your blog. Wish I could make a workshop.
yes, misunderstanding can be due to many reasons and the most worst among them is EGO, when couples cannot clutch real love they fall into those useless talks and which results into divorce later.
It was great to read about that post, i like your post very much. You have very well described that article, because i have seen this is the story of all houses. So your tips can be solve this problem.
Misunderstanding is the main point for divorce, so if you don’t want to face it so just try to do some thing so that your partner can make a trust on you.
This could help a lot of people.
The most important thing to make a healthy relation is just do a health communication. So that your partner will be loyal and your mutual understanding will be very nice.
It is very easy to misunderstand your partner because of different communication styles. Luckily for me, my partner is very understanding, but I know that is not always the case for many people.
@Jena: I think these are common misunderstandings and with basic conflict management and a simple workshop like yours to understand and appreciate differences, many a relations will truly reach the marital bliss state. Thanks for the good work Jena 🙂
Communication is an interesting subject. And it is amazing how we can interpret things differently to how it is meant. We are all different, and all communicate is different ways and this can cause unintentional problems.
Jena, you have rightly said about the misunderstanding. More importantly all loves to keep it in self and increase the grievances rather than solving it. Better to open up and express.
Misunderstanding is common in a relationship. I would prefer to sit and talk with the my partner openly about the matter.
misunderstanding situations should be handled carefully….
misunderstanding has to be handled with care…that too in family relations
Thanks a lot for a bunch of good tips. I look forward to reading more on the topic in the future. Keep up the good work! This blog is going to be great resource. Love reading it.
Wonderful thoughts to settle the issue between partners. In fact understanding is the basic thing that works at all.
yeah right, the main reason why we don’t understand our partner feeling is because our ego. we think we right she/he is the one guilty.
but the source of the problem is in our self.
Be Firm in the Relationship. Think it over and over before you misunderstand your partner. Whatever decision you make will not only affect your future relationship with your partner – it can cause a lifetime regret if you’ll realize in the end that it’s him that you want to be with.
In fact men believe in messages whereas women have faith in meta message. So when they don’t understand each others message, they start misconceiving the loved ones and partners.
Thanks for the encouragement my dear and keep at it!
When the moment it happens you are so devastated and you cannot even think of anything else in your life right now. Everyone needs someone to talk to and to know what to do about it. But of course if a breakup is what you wanted then it won’t be hard for you to go on with your life.
Many partners think they understand each other while in reality they have the slightest clue what the other person is thinking.
-Megan
Great read!
Of course, what a great site and informative posts, I will add backlink – bookmark this site?
My husband and me with our two kids are travelling in China for one month, we found out there are lots of times we misunderstood each other. I would like to know how the work shop works, did you get to help somebody?
yes. I am wrking more and more with helping couples.
Of course, what a great site and informative posts, I will add backlink – bookmark this site? Regards..
You have made great point I hope I will be able to fins related articles on your blog!
Wow! This is interesting. Can it be true?
Great site I’m looking forward to reading more posts from you!
ope this blog will be of great use to everyone… thanks for sharing:)
Thanks for the informative post, I like it so much. Hope to read another one from you soon!
Hi there, I found your blog via Google while searching for first aid for a heart attack and your post looks very interesting for me.
Well misunderstanding is really a very serious thing for the relationship and i think it can be cause of breakup and some times divorce. So it is better to avoid this thing from the relationship. I have seen so many people who are facing the same problem. Anyways keep it up and keep continue with your valuable thoughts.
This is rightly said about misunderstanding. It’s really a great post. Thanks for sharing it.
great information thank you
My partner doesnt misunderstand me because ive known her for 7 years now. its quite immature to pick someone before knowing that person deeply.
I’m not sure that I believe too much in hand readings, I can relate to being misunderstood at times though.
I guess everyone is different and most people aren’t’ mind readers so it is very easy to misunderstand someone, it is when it happens often that it becomes a big issue.
I am lucky, my husband and I don’t really have an issue, we have occasional times when we might misunderstand each other, but generally we do well.
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Communication is there but the question that’s really matters is how they communicate with each other and how they handle their communication. Constructive communication is the very sufficient way of communicating with partner these will go into a peaceful and clear talking with each other.
thanks tor explaining it that way
well i am single but heard lot of cases regarding couples i do not how this situation of misunderstanding arises.marriage is bonding between two souls.than whats the reason behind problems.i gone through your post and got very good points here .thanks for sharing.
I bookmarked this site! Very informative!
i think if your partner misunderstand you then it has some reason so first you have to solve those reason first and in case of failure then take a another step.
Hey! I found your website again. I’ve been looking for it for a while, this time I’m going to bookmark it.
misunderstand is all about getting wrong meaning of the thing which may be said by your partner and i think the solution for this only one which is communication. keep it up
Wow! I have a new appreciation for this kind of thing. I use to think Palm reading was total bogus! But it makes sense in so many ways now one because I am starting to understand more about DNA and how amazing it is and how many levels of it there is! Have you ever heard of Theta healing? Could that be tied in with Hand Analysis?
i think this hand analysis workshop is really helpful and useful too in order to make our relation stronger. that’s must read to all who have some problem in there wedding life. keep it up
It’s a great website of yours. I surfed by and found it very informative. Bookmarked and check you back in a while
I am glad that I found your site. I wanted to thank you for this great read!! I definitely enjoying every bit of it and I have you bookmarked to check out the new stuff you post.
The best method to avoid misunderstanding is communicating more and more.
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ohhh nice info
I was in a really bad relationship in the past. I actually had a child with this man. He was physically and emotionally abusive and belittled me at every chance that he could get. Now that we are split up he is a deadbeat dad that does not pay child support or help at all with my daughter. I feel so much anger at this and I never want to let anyone treat me like this again.
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Thank you for all the great posts from last year! I look forward to reading your blog, because they are always full of information that I can put to use. Thank you again, and God bless you in 2010.
Humor needs to be number 1 but these days so many people have been on the end of a bad relationship that fell apart due to dishonesty that its become more important than ever…
Very innovative! thanks for sharing the tips which will prove to be very helpful in future as well…
I feel like I’m misunderstood all the time, it can be very frustrating especially if you are both very stubborn and don’t want to lose an argument.
Being misunderstood creates so many arguments its unbelievable.
I’m not sure about the hand reading thing, but I did find your article interesting.
I think pride usually make a couple separate.
what a fantastic read, the comments on here are really helpful, im going through some bad times lately and feel i have learned alot from here, i just wondered if you have any workshops in the UK??? or can point out any ones you would recommend or do you give private advised on line??
hi yes. I consult online here: http://handanalysisonline.com/consultation.php
Hi!. Thanks for the blog. I’ve been digging around looking some info up for a project, but i think i’m getting lost!. Google lead me here – good for you i guess! Keep up the good work. I will be popping back over in a few days to see if there is updated posts.
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I think all the misunderstandings happen because we are on different plans different plans
of realities different plans of emotions , how we feel about things and about the people
around us and its because of that feeling we start seeing things in that way or expecting
things in that particular way, there is another interesting thing about misunderstanding it
always happen from the side when u have higher plan of emotions where the person is
more involved with his heart, where he is giving more , as misunderstanding is the
situation of no reflection of no return ,we should try and understand this why its mostly
from person who has got more emotions
Misunderstanding starts when your communication to your partner is misleading, sometimes assuming of something else you have in your mind is far different to what a guys head. A women and men is far like from Pluto to March ideas. That’s why a good communication can be healthy when you resolve the situation as soon as possible.
In a relationship misunderstanding is a common problems because we have different attitude and behavior even a life style. But all problems has a solution the first step you to do is communicate to your partner. Second is love if there is love all things are possible especially if there is God of your life, because God is love and he can do anything for us.
Nice information.
good technique.
Thanks a lot.
Another great add-on, I truly could not have explained that better personally.