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Do you have difficulty saying no? (Zürich hand analysis mini workshop series)
By Jena Griffiths | October 9, 2009
Just a reminder that tomorrow, Saturday 10 October,
I’ll be hosting another mini workshop in Zurich.
Topic: Do you have difficulty saying no?
There are many different reasons for not saying ‘no’.
Sometimes this has to do with wanting to avoiding conflict at all cost.
Other times it’s to do with not wishing to hurt another’s feelings.
Or it could be because you’re not really sure what you want in the first place.
We’ll be looking at several different reasons for not saying ‘no’
that show up in hands.
What do your hands say about this?
And what can you do to build better boundaries or to say ‘no’
without offending others.
Here’s an example of how your hands reflect where you are putting
your energy over time.
Stretch your hands out in front of you.
Now look at your pointer fingers. Do both or one of your index fingers
bend away from the thumb towards your middle finger?
This indicates that you have given your power away in the past.
- Image via Wikipedia
The more your left pointer finger bends away from the thumb,
the more you have given your power away to your partner over the years.
The good news is, you don’t have to be confrontational to stand your ground.
As a wise man once said: You don’t always have to agree
But you can always be agreeable.
During the morning you’ll learn what your hands are trying to tell you
on this topic. You’ll also learn practical guidelines to effectively manage
your boundaries and to say ‘no’ graceously.
We’ll be starting at 10am at Predigergasse 19. (10 am until 1pm)
Hope you can join us.
You don’t live anywhere near Zurich?
We’ll be covering this topic online in future calls.
more about other topics in the Zurich hand analysis mini workshop series
About Jena Griffiths:
Jena is a hand analyst and life purpose support coach based in Canton Zürich Switzerland.
Jena runs monthly online classes teaching hand analysis and consults/reads hands both online
and in Switzerland. More about Jena by going here.
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Topics: Hand Analysis/Palm Reading, Relationships and family |
October 9th, 2009 at 9:27 pm
Yes I have the power”NO”
October 12th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
You mention those point with whom lot of people fight inside. I am one of them who actually find difficult to say “no”
October 13th, 2009 at 5:02 am
I have learned a lot reading from your posts. I love the way you explain. Very interesting.
October 13th, 2009 at 10:25 am
nice article very interesting good work
October 13th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
I’m surprised I have a finger left! Just kidding! Lets just say I’m very agreeable. Makes for a happy marriage
October 19th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
I guess I am doing good because my index finger stands straight up, though I sometimes to feel like I have a difficult time saying no. Setting boundaries is very important so that you feel like you respect yourself, and then other people will too.
October 22nd, 2009 at 4:08 am
Great blog. All posts have something to learn. Your work is very good and i appreciate you and hopping for some more informative posts.
October 24th, 2009 at 10:30 pm
Say no if we feel not agree is very hard.
October 28th, 2009 at 9:22 am
Yes NO word, though Negation may be beneficial or harmful, beneficial when some strategic plan are been carried out and you want to delay and harmful when you lack motivation and that strength from within.
October 29th, 2009 at 8:46 pm
wow you got me looking at my finger for like 5 minutes .. jajaj.. but anyways really interesting stuff btw it seems that you given your power away to your partner or you had an accident cause your finger really bends.. lol.
November 1st, 2009 at 8:54 am
hehe great, seems that i do not have a difficulty saying no ^__^
Its great reading your website with tips like this, hope you put up more of them
December 5th, 2009 at 2:26 pm
I often feel trouble while saying no to anybody. In fact it varies from culture to culture. In some countries it is not looked as shameful.
December 16th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
awesome i don’t have any difficult saying no. but really interesting way you use here lol
January 7th, 2010 at 5:17 am
hey really nice blog posting..I am impressed with the content of the article. I have been trying this method and I have seen some real improvements. This method is very useful.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:34 am
Its really an interesting post…..
January 18th, 2010 at 2:38 pm
Wow, one of my fingers is pretty straight and the other is slightly curved as you describe.
Guess that means I give in 1/2 of the time to my partner?
January 23rd, 2010 at 5:38 am
I am impressed with the content of the article. I have been trying this method and I have seen some real improvements. This method is very useful.
January 25th, 2010 at 8:56 am
Tks for sharing,really cool post,hope to read more in the coming days…
January 28th, 2010 at 11:39 pm
Why are people concentrating on hands so much ? How can you read anything from the tip of one of your limbs…its just funny to me
January 30th, 2010 at 2:55 am
That is very interesting. I have trouble saying no - more so with my kids though, they seem to have some power over me.
Although my index fingers don’t lean too badly so I must be doing ok
February 2nd, 2010 at 1:08 am
Although things like this may seem to have no credibility, often times there will be a consistency in the results that defy coincidence or chance. Keep an open mind!
February 2nd, 2010 at 1:13 am
saying no is very difficult most especially if you seems to tell it to your friends or shall we say those people that close to you, that was a big problem to me.
February 2nd, 2010 at 5:11 am
I’ll appreciate your posting its very unique ones it is a useful and practical guidelines.I have no difficulty say no..
February 12th, 2010 at 4:42 am
Woah! My left pointer finger totally bends towards the left middle finger. Interesting as I recently ended a serious long term relationship where my individual power was starting to be snuffed more and more and I had to get out.
Will my left pointer ever bend back to being straight when I start taking back my power and owning my energy? Will be an interesting experiment to see.
March 4th, 2010 at 9:56 pm
I feel like the one person that I give my power over to is my daughter. She is not even 3 yet but the amount of control that she has over me is unreal!